# Hindu funerals

> A Hindu funeral (antyesti, the last rite) is usually a cremation held as soon as possible. The body is washed and dressed by family, prayers and offerings are made, and the chief mourner — traditionally the eldest son — leads the rites. Many UK crematoria let the family witness the committal. Ashes are scattered in flowing water, and mourning rites continue for around 13 days.

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## Key facts

- **Burial or cremation:** Cremation for most adults; babies, young children and some holy people may be buried
- **How soon:** As soon as possible after death
- **Preparation:** Washed and dressed by family; tulsi leaves and Ganga jal (water from the Ganges) may be placed in the mouth
- **At the crematorium:** Many UK crematoria allow the chief mourner to witness the charging of the coffin
- **Ashes:** Scattered in flowing water — in India, or at designated UK river sites
- **Mourning:** Usually around 13 days, with a shraddha ceremony and later anniversaries

## What happens at a Hindu funeral

Hindus believe the soul (atman) moves on to a new life, and the funeral helps release it. Family members, often guided by a priest, wash and dress the body — sometimes in new or traditional clothes — and may apply sandalwood paste or place flowers and a garland. The coffin may be brought home or to the mandir so relatives can pay respects before the cremation.

At the crematorium, prayers and mantras are recited. The chief mourner traditionally lights the funeral pyre; in the UK this is usually represented by the family witnessing the coffin entering the cremator, which many crematoria can accommodate if you ask in advance.

## Ashes and the mourning period

- Ashes are traditionally immersed in a river — ideally the Ganges. Some families travel to India; others use designated sites on UK rivers arranged with local authorities and mandirs.

- Mourning usually lasts around 13 days (it varies by community). The family may stay at home, eat simple food and receive visitors, ending with a shraddha ceremony to honour the person who died.

- Anniversaries — rites may be repeated monthly for the first year and annually after that.

Every family and community is different. Use this as a starting point, follow the wishes of the person who died, and ask their faith leader or community for guidance.

## Etiquette

- **What to wear:** White or light, modest clothing is traditional — black is usually avoided. Remove shoes before entering a home shrine or mandir.
- **What to say:** “Om Shanti” (“peace”), or simply offer your condolences and support.
- **Flowers:** Flowers and garlands are welcome, often placed on or around the coffin.

## FAQs

### Are Hindus buried or cremated?

Most Hindus are cremated. Babies, young children and some holy people (sannyasis) may be buried instead.

### Can the family watch the cremation in the UK?

Yes, many UK crematoria allow the chief mourner and a small number of family members to witness the coffin being placed in the cremator. Ask the crematorium or your funeral director in advance.

### What do Hindus do with the ashes in the UK?

Ashes are usually scattered in flowing water. Some families take them to India, while others use designated sites on UK rivers.

### What colour should you wear to a Hindu funeral?

White or light-coloured, modest clothing is traditional. Black is generally avoided.