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Buddhist funerals

Buddhist funerals vary by tradition and culture, but most are simple, reflective ceremonies focused on impermanence and on helping the person who died towards a good rebirth. Cremation is most common, monks or teachers may chant, and many families hold further ceremonies at seven-day intervals up to 49 days after death.

Key facts

Burial or cremationCremation is most common; burial is acceptable
Who leadsA monk, nun or lay teacher from the family’s tradition — Theravada, Mahayana, Tibetan, Zen and others
Key practicesChanting, meditation on impermanence and merit-making (giving) on behalf of the person who died
After deathCeremonies at weekly intervals up to 49 days are common, especially in Chinese and Tibetan traditions

What happens at a Buddhist funeral

Buddhism teaches that death is a natural part of life and that a calm, compassionate atmosphere can help the person who died move towards a good rebirth. Some traditions — particularly Tibetan Buddhism — prefer the body to be left undisturbed for a period after death while prayers are said.

The ceremony may take place at home, a temple, a funeral home or a crematorium. An altar with an image of the Buddha, flowers, candles and incense is common. Monks or teachers chant sutras, and mourners may be invited to bow, offer incense or reflect in silence.

Traditions in the UK

The UK’s Buddhist communities include Thai, Sri Lankan, Burmese, Vietnamese, Chinese, Japanese, Tibetan and Western convert sanghas, and customs differ widely between them. Ask the family’s temple or centre what they expect — for example, whether white clothing is worn, whether the coffin is open, and how the 49-day period is marked.

Every family and community is different. Use this as a starting point, follow the wishes of the person who died, and ask their faith leader or community for guidance.

Etiquette for guests

What to wear

Simple, modest clothing. White is traditional in many East Asian communities; dark, plain clothes are also common. Remove shoes in a temple.

What to say

Quiet words of sympathy. Many people simply bow slightly with hands together.

Flowers and gifts

White flowers are usually appropriate; avoid red, which can signify celebration.

Buddhist funeral services near you

Local guides listing Buddhist temples and centres, specialist funeral directors and burial or cremation options:

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Frequently asked questions

Do Buddhists get cremated or buried?
Cremation is most common, following the example of the Buddha, but burial is also acceptable.
What is the 49-day period?
Many Buddhist traditions believe rebirth happens within 49 days of death, so families hold prayers or ceremonies at seven-day intervals during this time.

Other traditions