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Bereavement support in the UK: helplines and services

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Free bereavement support is available across the UK. Cruse Bereavement Support (0808 808 1677) covers England, Wales and Northern Ireland, and Cruse Scotland (0808 802 6161) covers Scotland. Samaritans (116 123) listen 24 hours a day. Specialist charities support people after the death of a baby, a child, a partner or a death by suicide.

You don’t have to cope with grief on your own. This page lists free UK bereavement helplines and services, with phone numbers checked on each organisation’s own website in September 2026. Opening hours can change, so check the website before you call if you can.

Key points

  • Cruse offers free bereavement support in England, Wales and Northern Ireland. Cruse Scotland is a separate charity covering Scotland.
  • Samaritans are available 24 hours a day on 116 123, for anyone struggling, not only in crisis.
  • Specialist charities support people after the death of a baby, a child, a partner, or a death by suicide.
  • Winston’s Wish has merged into Child Bereavement UK, which now provides support for bereaved children and families.
  • At a Loss has a searchable directory of local bereavement services.
  • In an emergency, call 999.

If you need help right now

Situation Contact Available
Immediate danger to life 999 24 hours
Someone to talk to, UK-wide Samaritans: 116 123 (free) 24 hours, every day
Prefer to text Text SHOUT to 85258 24 hours, every day
Urgent mental health help, England NHS 111, choose the mental health option 24 hours
Urgent mental health help, Wales 111, press 2 24 hours
Urgent mental health help, Scotland NHS 24 on 111, choose the mental health option 24 hours
Crisis support, Northern Ireland Lifeline: 0808 808 8000 24 hours
Children and young people under 19 Childline: 0800 1111 Free

National bereavement helplines

Organisation Who it helps Phone Opening hours
Cruse Bereavement Support Anyone bereaved, in England, Wales and Northern Ireland 0808 808 1677 Monday, Wednesday, Thursday and Friday 9.30am to 5pm; Tuesday 1pm to 8pm; closed weekends
Cruse Scotland Anyone bereaved, in Scotland 0808 802 6161 See website
Marie Curie Support Line People affected by terminal illness, and bereavement 0800 090 2309 Monday to Friday 8am to 6pm; weekends 10am to 4pm
At a Loss Signposting to bereavement services across the UK Website only: ataloss.org Online
The Good Grief Trust Signposting to national and local bereavement support Website only: thegoodgrieftrust.org Online

Each registered charity’s details — charity number, accounts and what it spends money on — can be checked on Charity Compare.

Death of a baby or child

Organisation Who it helps Phone Opening hours
Sands Anyone affected by the death of a baby, before, during or after birth 0808 164 3332 Weekdays 10am to 3pm; Tuesday to Thursday evenings 6pm to 9pm; closed bank holidays
Child Bereavement UK (now including Winston’s Wish) Bereaved children and young people, and parents whose child has died 0800 02 888 40 Monday to Friday 8am to 8pm, not bank holidays. Also live chat, email and text or WhatsApp
The Lullaby Trust Families after the sudden, unexpected death of a baby or young child 0808 802 6868 Weekdays 10am to 2pm; weekends and public holidays 6pm to 10pm
The Compassionate Friends Bereaved parents and siblings, supported by other bereaved parents 0345 123 2304 See website
Tommy’s Parents after pregnancy and baby loss See tommys.org Online

See also our guide to a funeral for a baby or child.

Death by suicide

Survivors of Bereavement by Suicide (SoBS) offers peer support from trained volunteers who have themselves been bereaved by suicide. Helpline: 0300 111 5065. Check the website for opening hours and local groups.

Cruse, Samaritans and Child Bereavement UK also support people bereaved by suicide.

Death of a partner

WAY Widowed and Young is a peer-support network for anyone aged 50 or under when their partner died, whether married or not. It offers online communities, local meet-ups and events, with a small annual membership fee and help available for those who can’t afford it. There’s no phone helpline, so contact is through the website.

For practical and financial help, see bereavement leave and pay and help paying for a funeral.

Support for children and young people

  • Child Bereavement UK: 0800 02 888 40, with resources for families and schools.
  • Hope Again: Cruse’s website for young people, created with young people who have been bereaved.
  • Childline: 0800 1111 for anyone under 19.

See our guide to children and funerals.

If there’s an inquest (England and Wales)

The Coroners’ Courts Support Service offers free emotional and practical support to families attending an inquest: 0300 111 2141. See medical examiners, coroners and post-mortems.

Faith-based support

Many people find comfort within their faith community. You can:

  • speak to your priest, minister, imam, rabbi, granthi, pandit or other faith leader, many of whom offer home visits and bereavement support;
  • ask a hospital or hospice chaplain. Chaplaincy teams are usually multi-faith and also support people with no religion;
  • ask your place of worship whether it runs bereavement groups or visiting schemes.

The Muslim Bereavement Support Service supports bereaved Muslim women; contact is by email and through its website. For your own tradition, see our faith guides. Humanist and non-religious support is available through the general services above.

Local support

  • Your GP can talk through how you’re feeling and refer you to counselling or mental health services.
  • Hospices often offer bereavement support to families of people they cared for, and sometimes to the wider community.
  • Your funeral director may run aftercare services, memorial events or groups, or know what’s available locally.
  • Your employer may offer an employee assistance programme with free, confidential counselling.
  • Local groups and cafés: At a Loss and The Good Grief Trust list many local services.

What to expect from bereavement support

  • Helplines: a trained volunteer or counsellor listens and can point you to further help.
  • One-to-one support: a set number of sessions in person, by phone or by video.
  • Groups and peer support: meeting people who have had a similar loss.
  • Waiting lists are common for free counselling, so call helplines in the meantime.
  • Private counselling: choose someone registered with a recognised professional body, such as the BACP or UKCP.

Next steps

Frequently asked questions

Is bereavement counselling free?
Often, yes. Charities such as Cruse offer free support, and many hospices offer free bereavement services. NHS support is available through your GP. There may be waiting lists, and private counselling is also an option if you can pay.
How soon after a death can I get bereavement counselling?
You can call a helpline at any time, including straight away. Some services suggest waiting a few weeks or months before starting structured counselling, but you don't have to wait to get support.
What if I'm grieving someone who died a long time ago?
Grief doesn't have an expiry date. Bereavement services support people whenever the death happened, including many years ago.
How do I find bereavement support near me?
At a Loss (ataloss.org) has a searchable directory of UK bereavement services. You can also ask your GP, a local hospice, your funeral director or a faith leader about local groups.
How do I choose a private bereavement counsellor?
Look for a counsellor registered with a recognised professional body such as the BACP or UKCP, and ask about their experience with grief. Most offer a first session to see whether you feel comfortable with them.

Sources

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Cite this page: FuneralFinder (2026). “Bereavement support in the UK: helplines and services”. https://funeralfinder.org/uk/guides/bereavement-support/ (updated 25 September 2026).