Buddhist funeral directors & services in Kingston upon Thames
We don’t yet list a specialist Buddhist funeral director near Kingston upon Thames, but most local funeral directors can arrange a Buddhist funeral. There are 8 Buddhist temples and centres within 9 miles. Buddhist funerals vary by tradition and culture, but most are simple, reflective ceremonies focused on impermanence and on helping the person who died towards a good rebirth.
Funeral directors near Kingston upon Thames
We haven’t identified a specialist Buddhist funeral director close to Kingston upon Thames yet. The funeral directors below can arrange Buddhist funerals — ask about their experience and facilities. Offer Buddhist funerals? Tell us.
Co-op Funeralcare
0.8 milesSurbiton Funeralcare
1.1 milesLambert
1.2 milesLodge Brothers
1.2 milesLodge Brothers
1.5 milesBuddhist temples and centres near Kingston upon Thames
A Buddhist temple or centre can often help with prayers, a faith leader.
- Shinnyo-En Temple · 2.1 miles — The Manor House, Woodstock Lane North, KT6 5HL · website
- Buddhapadipa Temple · 4.0 miles — 14 Calonne Road, SW19 5HJ
- Kadampa Meditation Centre · 4.2 miles — 1A Ashridge Way, Morden, SM4 4EF · website
- London Buddhist Vihara · 6.4 miles · website
- Three Wheels Shin Buddhist Temple · 6.5 miles — 55 Carbery Avenue, London, W3 9AB · website
- Peace Pagoda · 8.1 miles
- Dechen London: Sakya Buddhist Centre · 8.9 miles — 106 Chepstow Road, London, W2 5QS · website
- West London Buddhist Centre · 9.0 miles — 45a Porchester Road, London, W2 5PT · website
Buddhist funerals: what to expect
| Burial or cremation | Cremation is most common; burial is acceptable |
|---|---|
| Who leads | A monk, nun or lay teacher from the family’s tradition — Theravada, Mahayana, Tibetan, Zen and others |
| Key practices | Chanting, meditation on impermanence and merit-making (giving) on behalf of the person who died |
| After death | Ceremonies at weekly intervals up to 49 days are common, especially in Chinese and Tibetan traditions |
Etiquette for guests
- What to wear: Simple, modest clothing. White is traditional in many East Asian communities; dark, plain clothes are also common. Remove shoes in a temple.
- What to say: Quiet words of sympathy. Many people simply bow slightly with hands together.
- Flowers: White flowers are usually appropriate; avoid red, which can signify celebration.
Practical steps in Kingston upon Thames
- The doctor records the cause of death and the medical examiner reviews it.
- Register the death with Kingston upon Thames register office within 5 days of the medical examiner’s office confirming the death can be registered. How to register.
- Contact a funeral director and your Buddhist temple or centre — they can help arrange the key rites (Chanting, reflection and merit-making (dana)).
- Book the crematorium — see local options.
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