Key facts
| Burial or cremation | Either is accepted |
|---|---|
| Service | Hymns (often by Charles Wesley), readings, tribute, prayers, commendation and committal |
What to expect
Methodist funerals celebrate the person’s life and the Christian hope of resurrection. Singing is central — hymns by Charles Wesley are popular — and the minister will plan the service with the family, including tributes from relatives and friends.
Every family and community is different. Use this as a starting point, follow the wishes of the person who died, and ask their faith leader or community for guidance.
Finding a church for the funeral
If the person didn’t have a regular church, the funeral director can suggest one, or you can find a Methodist church near you. Many ministers will lead a funeral for someone who lived in their parish or area, even if they rarely attended.
Etiquette for guests
What to wear
Dark or smart clothing, unless the family asks otherwise.
What to say
“I’m sorry for your loss.”
Flowers and gifts
Flowers are welcome; donations are a common alternative.