Key facts
| Burial or cremation | Both accepted; burial is often preferred |
|---|---|
| Service style | Lively worship, gospel choirs, testimonies and a sermon; services can last several hours |
| Graveside | In many Caribbean families, mourners take turns filling in the grave, often while singing |
| Before the funeral | Some Jamaican families hold a “nine night” gathering of prayer, food and music |
Homegoing traditions in the UK
For many Black-majority churches in the UK, a funeral is a “homegoing” — a celebration of the person going home to God. Expect a large congregation, printed orders of service with photos, gospel music and heartfelt tributes. Some cemeteries and funeral directors are used to families backfilling graves and can plan for it; ask in advance.
Every family and community is different. Use this as a starting point, follow the wishes of the person who died, and ask their faith leader or community for guidance.
Finding a church for the funeral
If the person didn’t have a regular church, the funeral director can suggest one, or you can find a Pentecostal church near you. Many ministers will lead a funeral for someone who lived in their parish or area, even if they rarely attended.
Etiquette for guests
What to wear
Smart clothes — sometimes white, or a colour chosen by the family.
What to say
Words of comfort and faith are welcome.
Flowers and gifts
Flowers are welcome.